Aligning Your State of Being with Your Intention To Manifest A lover

Attracting a specific lover requires more than just setting an intention and hoping for the best. It involves aligning your state of being with your intention so that you can attract the kind of person you desire. This process involves cultivating the right mindset and energy to create a magnetic pull towards your ideal partner.

Understanding Your State of Being

State of being describes the state and quality of one’s being. It goes beyond our emotions and feelings, and it is more about the core of our being.State of mind focuses on our feelings and emotions, while state of being reflects the core of our identity and the attributes that characterize us.

Think of a state of being as a picture of your overall life experience. It is not confined to a particular moment or circumstance but rather shows a wider view of your being. It is the result of your thoughts, beliefs, and actions, which influence your reality.

Once you have a clear vision of the kind of relationship you desire, it's time to align your state of being with your intention. This means embodying the qualities and values you seek in a partner. For example, if you desire a loving and compassionate partner, you must first cultivate love and compassion within yourself.

Here are some steps you can take to align your state of being with your intention to find a lover:

1. Get crystal clear about the attributes you want

First and foremost, it's important to reflect on the qualities and values you seek in a partner. What kind of person do you want to invite into your reality? Take some time to visualize yourself in a loving and fulfilling relationship with this person. Imagine the joy, love, and connection you would experience together.

The clearer your vision about what you desire in a person, the more accurate your reality will reflect your desires. You will always manifest a clear or mixed bag of whatever you want. If you don't know what you want, you will manifest a variety of relationships, aimed at helping you clarify and understand what you want. This is why letting go of relationships where you no longer want to be in or no longer are helpful to your personal growth and development is important. Regard every breakup as an opportunity to get to know more about what you do not prefer and what you do prefer for yourself and your reality.

Mindset Downloads:

" Every relationship serves me in some way. It's either a blessing in disguise or a lesson to learn"

" My breakup did not mean I failed, it means I have more clarity about the life I want to create and the person I want to be".

" I will take the good experience of every relationship and leave the bad".

" I thank every lover I have been with for giving me the blessing of love and self-expansion".

2. Self-Reflection: let go of unconscious baggage.

Have you ever wondered why you keep manifesting the same toxic relationship with different people? Same plot, and different characters. This is because our unconscious mind also influences our manifestations. Many of us are only aware of our conscious thoughts and forget our unconscious thoughts and beliefs. So while we put so much energy into changing conscious thoughts and beliefs, we forget to resolve old traumas and unhelpful core beliefs that maintain aspects of our current reality. As a consequence, when we try to manifest a new reality, we also manifest our unconscious old reality.

And so you manifest a new person who has all the conscious qualities you prefer but will reflect to you the same unconscious qualities you hold (unworthiness, abandonment, abuse, emotional neglect, infidelity, etc).

Key Takeaway:

2. Reflect Love Inward

As within, so outward. According to the laws of manifestation, reality is a mirror reflection of your vibrational state of being. In other words, your reality is created by the energies within you. Such as a projector that projects signals from your computer and converts them into visual images on the wall. So, if you want to create a reality wherein you are loved by someone unconditionally, you need to create that energy within yourself so your universe can project that outward toward you.

So, explore ways to love yourself unconditionally. Treat yourself with kindness, compassion, and respect. When you love and value yourself, you radiate a positive energy that attracts others who will reflect that love to you.

Mindset Download:

"I am deserving of a loving and fulfilling relationship."

" I am my remote control. My energy controls my reality"

" Love is not found, it is reflected from within, outward"

3. Become The Lover You Want To Attract:

As within, so outward. You cannot attract contrary to who you are energetically. We are not talking about personality types (ie.e introverts Vs extroverts) or romantic preferences. We are talking about belief structures.

For example, if you believe that no partner can love you unless you have material gains, then you will harmonize/ shift to a paralegal reality where that is true. Where you will meet partners who define love by material gains-- you will harmonize with a romantic partner who has a core belief that a partner who truly loves them will shower them with material gains. You will also meet and resonate with friends and companions who also share and validate your beliefs. Remember, the the law of "As within, so outward", states that your reality will mirror your internal beliefs.

So if you want someone to value you for who you are ( your intrinsic qualities), in order to change your vibrational state of being, you need to

a. Believe that that person exists,

b. Act like someone who values people for who they are intrinsically ( internal attributes) and not what they are extrinsically ( external attributes such as wealth or beauty or any non-innate qualities).

Key Takeaway: Focus on cultivating those qualities within yourself. If you desire a partner who is kind and compassionate, strive to embody those traits in your own life. Be kind to yourself and others, practice empathy and cultivate a loving and open heart. By aligning your energy with the qualities you seek, you create a magnetic force that will naturally attract someone who resonates with those qualities.

3. Maintain a Helpful Mindset

Thoughts anchor you to a specific reality. Not every thought that comes to your mind should be entertained and accepted by you. Some thoughts are helpful toward your goal ( lead you toward the reality you aim to create), while other thoughts anchor you to your current reality or a different one.

Cultivate a helpful mindset by focusing on thoughts that reflect the good in your life that you want to maintain and avoid ruminating on "worst case scenario" thoughts. An effective way of doing this is to practice mindful gratitude for the blessings you have and envision a bright and loving future.

4. Discover Your Authentic Personality

Don't try to be someone you're not in order to attract a specific lover. The way to access this part of you is to true to yourself and embrace your authentic personality. To do this, ask yourself, " If there was no one to judge, criticize, or influence me, who would I be? What would I want? What would my life look like? How will I behave? What will I believe? ( Tip: use as a journaling exercise)."

If you find that you do not like your answers, then work on your character, values, personality to be more representative of the type of person you are proud of.

4. Align With Your Higher Mind-- your supra-conscious self

Have you ever wondered where intuition comes from? What part of your brain is responsible for it? Many people call this your higher mind or self. It is a supra-conscious part of you that goes beyond your conscious and unconscious mind. In spiritual circles, this is called the non-physical YOU. In the Quantum physical circle, this is called the aspect of YOU that is connected to the Matrix or universal quantum field.

The importance of this is that your higher mind will guide you towards becoming whoever you want to be and manifest the life you want. Your higher mind contains all the wisdom, knowledge, and information that your physical mind cannot access.

To connect with your higher mind, follow your excitement. The thoughts that lead you to activities that excite you in small and big ways. Also follow the thoughts that are kind, compassionate, loving, forgiving, encouraging, etc. In other words, learn to speak to yourself in a kind and compassionate way. Fire your inner bully.

Doing this will raise your vibrational frequency and align you more frequently with your higher mind. And so you will start to think automatically like your higher mind.

Your higher mind is not an external voice. It is the aspect of your inner dialogue that is wise, compassionate, caring, encouraging, patient and never disparaging.

5. Energy Alignment

Align your energy with your intention by engaging in activities that bring you joy and raise your vibration. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people who uplift and inspire you. Practice self-care and engage in activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul.

Remember, aligning your state of being with your intention is an ongoing process. It requires self-reflection, self-love, and a commitment to personal growth. By embodying the qualities and values you seek in a partner, you create a magnetic energy that attracts the kind of love and relationship you desire.

It's important to note that love is a shared experience, and the other person also needs to adjust their state of being to match your intention. However, by aligning your own state of being with your intention, you create a powerful foundation for attracting the right person into your life.

So, take the time to align your state of being with your intention. Cultivate the mindset and energy that will attract the kind of person you desire. Remember, you are deserving of love and a fulfilling relationship. Trust in the process and have faith that the universe will bring the right person into your life at the perfect time.